on some wedding home work. Trying to get music organized by Thursday....would make my bride feel a lot easier. Sue wants Micky Mouse... That is...she wants to go to Disney for our Honeymoon. Yes...I'm a bad man. Nothing is planned as of yet...and I know this is a once in a life time opportunity. But there are some issues not meant to be discussed here.
I had an interesting conversation with one of Nick's therapists. I have not been happy with her...and when I finally compromised and decided to give it a go with her...she announced to me before our phone conversation ended, “There is no other therapist for Nick here anyway.”
Basically....I have to make due with her. It wasn't encouraging and admittedly.
One: A professional should never ever say anything like that to a client.
Two:I am having my doubts about the State of Virginia. I hate feeling this way. I need to feel Nick is getting the best care that can be....but this therapist carries herself in a way that is disconcerting.
I could go on further, but the matter is being handled. I hope. Pastor Bill thought that we could have gotten her fired the day we visited Nick's facility. Bill works in the field and he shook his head at how we were treated. Like a couple of yokels. Maybe that is all they deal with. I am sorry.....I am no Yokel. Just a Father that cares and wants his son to get the best care he deserves.
Well....time for Bed. Pray for me and my family. Pray for Nick...and Sue. Nick will not make the wedding and Sue is experiencing something similar to what I am going through. There are the way things really are....and the way you would like them to be. Unfortunately we have to accept the way things really are. Perhaps work to wards what we would like them to be...but in the direct present.....the way things we would like them to be...is not possible.
I go to see my Dr. Weinberg tomorrow. He will meet Sue and I look forward to them developing a relationship. She has nothing like HIV like me...however she does have some things that she needs an that Ron Weinberg could handle.
I carry no hard feelings toward “The Pines” or Nick's therapist. I would like to close with that thought. I tried to mediate and take some of the blame due to miscommunication. The therapist was happy to hear that...even though blame fell upon poor administration and coordinating. The therapists knowledge seems well enough...but then again... the thereapist could have been reading Nick's charts from Brisbane and repeating his diagnosis back to me. I wonder if that is what was done. The analysis really did sound a lot like the conclusions Nick's three therapists in Brisbane came to.
Peace All